Is there somebody who knows answer?
Children rarely give you what you wait from them.You have accept them for what they are,not for what you want do from them.YOU need them and they think (and it has to be so) about themselves.They love you but they are directed in their future.And maybe when you need their help they are too far.
Husband?Maybe your husband is the best in this world.But the women wisdom says (I heared this from many and very different women): if you have to make choice from best possibilities and your husband,forget your husband.Nothing feeling of guilt or something like this.Think about yourself.Your husband will estimate you more then if you think about him,first.He will never doubt to change you if he'll find more interesting (for him) woman.
Nothing forever says an TV-spot.
Things are not important.Even if you live in a village you can leave your house and go in an other place.And all those things you loved become rubbish.Have you ever thought about it: they are part of our family,it's profume,it's special feeling.Maybe because we give so much of our soul to create our residence...And one day all this is to leave...Not to leave,but to expel as refuse...our life,our soul...
Our life is not important.What is changed in the world while we were born?Nothing.What will change,when we go?Nothing.Is there difference for the world that we are alive, try to do something to survive,to accumulate goods and money?
So I ask you: pls say me what is important in this life?
This morning I read an appeal about baby seals.You can read and see photos HERE
The photos are cruel and I don't want post them here too.Maybe one at the end.
Maybe this is important -to help others to survive,to become better?
I firmed 2 petitions on 2 sites I posted there.I really hope it will help....
I uploaded those photos to my Flikr to can post them on my sites.I hope the authors of the photos don't beat me for it.
You know,one woman from Czech Republic firmed it when she read it on my site.I'm really happy about it!
These Recomendations for the life are attributed to Dalai Lama
I N S T R U C T I O N S F O R L I F E
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
3. Follow the three Rs:
- Respect for self
Respect for others and
Responsibility for all your actions.
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
7. When you realise you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
8. Spend some time alone every day.
9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
15. Be gentle with the earth.
16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.