Saturday, December 30, 2006

Great fear,deathly terror

This emotion is maybe too private,too deep...Some years ago I'd never thought about it.Not that I didn't have it,but I could not understand it's importance.I even laughed when I had seen persons trembled from deathly terror.First of them was my husband.

Do you remember earthquake of 1980 near Neaples?Surely no.I too.There are many earthquakes every year on the earth.We don't remember the most terrible of them after some months.It's normal,I think.Normal is that every day have to come and to go many creatures.Nobody noticed them come,nobody noticed them go.Me too.

All of you noticed this morning 1 person was dead.He was bad.Now all the world will speak about him 2-3 or more days.What do you think,how many children met their death this morning?How many of them deserved it? Nobody noticed them.I'm secure,the life do not finish with the death of the body and maybe they have to go to the better faith.But what I want to say here is this our carelessness.Today,3/01,I found at least one person thinks about it like me.John Lenon.

So why I began to tell you about earthquake of 1980 in Neaples?Because I live with people that REMEMBER it.My husband told me he was in his car when all this began.45 seconds.He saw higher houses bend to the right,then to the left over his head.One day after great earthquake in Assisi we went to visit an exhibition not far from there.I never was in this city and wanted to see it.My husband said no,but I was the pilot,had the map and said him where to go.And after a long way through the mountains (I chose the wrong rout for it) we arrived straight in the main place of the old part of the city,where the walls of the houses were maintained with sticks else.My poor husband,40 years old man,began to tremble.He lose completly his head.The only thing he could understand was "run away".I laughed.

A year later I was in a shop with 3-4 women looking for an interesting idea to do with a sewing-machine.One of us moved the table where was the example-work and...suddenly one women began to tremble,her eyes become mad and she wanted to run out from the shop."No,no,signora,it's not an earthquake" -said the shop assistant.I understood,what was happend.I didn't laugh more.

(Sincerely after I have seen different persons with this reaction I admire Japaneses.How can they live with this sense all life?I think,it's unpossible to accustome to ancestral terror.)

But here I write not about this extreem manifestation of this emotion.I think,more dangerous and interesting to research is it's hidden side.An obviously example.You see a very nice dog in a corner and want to stroke it.But the dog is agressive and bite you.Why?Because it's afraid of you.It doesn't knows/likes you,it's in the corner and can't run away,your gesture to strike has minacious significance for animals (you want to touch head and neck)

Once I wanted to open the window in a dark room and reached my hand to the band.In this moment somebody bites me! It was a lizard.It dreamed in the corner of the window,when I disturbed it.It bit me and had a pose "try to touch me and you'll see!"

Agressivity comes from fear,we are tight because we are afraid,headaches often have this nature,many illnesses come from there too.Even bad dreams in the night.Analyze your behaviour.Why I did it?And this? -what comes at the end is fear,terror or pride.Hidden pride too.Emotion that don't goes with time,remains with us,maintains our body in the state of tension,exhaust our health.We forgot the reasons,but continue to live in this situation,suffer different aches,illnesses that can't be heal.All this because we ARE afraid.

When we understand,we can help us to become more happy and healthy person.Without this problem.It's not so easy to do.It's hides very well.But when you know about it,you know what to do with it.To be consciouse is the way to win.

6/01-07 I read a book where the author inserts psychological reviews and advises.He writes about the sense of scare too and tells about a sort of training for those who wants to win this sence.It's not his idea,that is why I don't write the name of the author.But I don't remember where is this idea from.You have to immagin as alive as possible the most bad possibilities of your death.For example you see the car comes on you,you have to see and to feel all particolaries of this incident,your blood,meat,all what you could feel in this moment.Immagin all different cases with all specific particolaries.They say,after some time you can win the deathly terror and in similar situations you don't waste time (moments) to be afraid and use it,time,to get away.

Personally I didn't do this exersice,I did other one.I saw myself as a body,piece of meat,something like this.Bad feeling.But it helps you to understand.Praticaly the same exersice that I wrote to win the dipendance from the very near person that mistreat us.Here we win the dipendance from our body.It could be really great if we could win dependance from the fear and aches.

Friday, December 29, 2006

News in my link collection

In this period I have very interesting -and I would say really important - adds to my link collection you can see on Interesting-links-I-found page of My Interests Site .

I had to create a special category for Yoga-links,where there are sites with photographical explanations of assanas of different levels from beginners to advanced yoga technics.Here there are Ashtanga Yoga,Sivananda site,Kundalini Yoga and others.Interesting chackra image is here .

Other very important part devided in different categories is about Archaeology,History,Arts.
Now in many sites there are TOP-s:top-events of the year ecc.Some of them I posted in News-from-all-the-world page.Museums on-line,tests and games about many branches of scients from post countries on the map,compose fantastic creatures with Leonardo and others.Very beautiful videos about animals.Beautyful photographies I post in MyKitchen in different places,not only in Photography-board.Something useful about Literature and Languages and ...

...and 36 (07/02/2007) sites where you can see funy-funny-fun pictures ! Read funy stories ! And other funy things.

LET'S GO TO INTERESTING-LINKS-I-FOUND ! ;-))))

Sunday, December 24, 2006

Where can you find Kotik on Christmas?

I told you about K'otik one month ago.He is a young and hilarious cat.In this period he is very busy.Not only he goes together with us for a walk,but he helps my husband to lop olives too.They climb the trees,one cuts branches and other controls the work.























If Kotik is in house,he has many things to do too.Here I post photos about his activities.











Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Psycological tests,IQ ecc.

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04/03/2007
some days ago I read a review of psychological science news. Guess. About... IQ-tests. These tests are not exhaustive, can show only one side of the person. The most clear example are that Einstein and Sharon Stone are the same result of IQ-test, but the ideas in those heads are very difficult...,say scientists.
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I detest psycological tests.And their authors.
When I say it,many persons think I'm mad.It's soooo interesting !! Amusing! We can understand who is intelligent and who is not !!! Have you ever think,WHAT can you understand? That in this moment of your life you know more or less as the author of this test?

(For those who asked me about addresses here I write about one of them,new for me,unusual IQ-test,and HERE there are different psycological tests and logical tasks,I hope you'll enjoy them.)

This is the test professors of higher mathematics do during the examination:
They ask the best students very difficult questions.First question,second,third...at the end they ask:how much is 2 x 2? - and many students can't answer in this moment.
This example knows everybody.
There are moments in the life when you can't say your name.Your mind is distracted by something very important.

Second.Most tests you read in mass media have so low level of intelligence,so evident are the future conclusion about you...
Do you eat meat every day? -A.Yes B.No. If you can chose between a plate with chicken and vegetable salad,what will you eat? -A.Chicken B.Salad Conclusion:If you have most B,you are vegetarian.(if no,you have to think about it)

The same about IQ tests I have seen.They are a little more complicated,I think the autors are payd better,or it's their scientific task,I don't know.The level of intelligence is here higher.Sometimes you can't immagin the conclusion the author will do about you.
I don't say here, this can influence emotionally not very strong persons.It can remain tracks in the brain of those who has emotional problems.
I don't say, it can influence your employer.You could be made of gold,but that employer believes the author of that test.
The most annoying is irresponsibility and immorality of persons that are on their places to manage us.And our quickness to believe and to follow every their word.(Seems I come to this conclusion in every post but read what I found about us as result of "many IQ tests" here,later)

When I was little,there were books with logical,mathematical and other tasks.
2 horses tool a carriege for 40 km.How many km does every horse?
If I have +,-,- than -,+,- what have I to post on the third place here: -,-, ?

Now the tasks from these books we call IQ tests.Sometimes.When the author is intelligent enough.It's clear,and is not worth to write about it,to think about it.Don't read,don't answer -what is the problem?

The problem is that from those "researches" interested persons (like those employers) begin mass-media-compaigns about:
-most persons with low IQ are or poor or criminals (they have never heard about extrimly intelligent criminals and about poor persons that become academics)
-most persons with low IQ have low IQ parents (have you never heared that child of genius is never genius ecc)
but the best is that highest IQ have Asians,then Europeans,then Black and Latinos.(is enough for you that you are Latinos and you can automatically exclude yourself from all possibilities of growth,study ecc.Excuse me,but Latinos aren't from the same Asian race? So genetically they have to be the most intelligent or no?)

I think,if those tests had to compose Aborigens of Australia or others(Latinos or people from Amazonia for example),and had to give conclusions about these our "scientists" they,these scientists, were the most stupid from all 6 milliards of population of the Earth.And they would never find job till the end of the world.
Amen.


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Sunday, December 17, 2006

Christmas.Soviet Union.Answer to Angela's comment.

Happy Christmas to all my Readers!!!

This photo is from the site "Visit the motherland of Ded Moroz (Old Frost)"

You are great,Angela,I didn't know those things you write about in your comment and wanted to investigate those traditions,because I think they are very interesting and very near to our nature,our soul.I know,here in the zone I live, there are very ancestral uses bound to the day when people remember their dead relatives (Halloween today) for example.Interesting is,this uses survive in all nations even there are Religions and Modern view on the world ecc.

I write my answer here because I want to add pictures to my story.

In Soviet Union the ufficial feast was New Year with tree,"Old Frost(Ded Mor'oz)"(to respect,because can do bad things if treated in mistaken way - in ancestral folclore) and his grand-doughter "Born from snow(Sneg'urotchka)" (seems to be doughter of Spring,father unknown -modern story,eh?).There is a fable about a girl that was made from snow by parents that could not have children, and the girl become alive.In spring she dies when jamps with friends over the bale-fire (spring feast of Kup'ala -when everything -all spirits and creations of Winter- have to die in the fire of spring). This story was used by A.N.Ostr'ovskij in 1867 and N.A.R'imskij-K'orsakov in 1881 composed opera "Sneg'urotchka"(born from snow).
The officials of communist party when had to create a new popular holiday (middle 20-th) used these characters.Together Ded Mor'oz and Sneg'urotchka appear for the first time in 1937
This is the picture of Vasnetsov V.M.

Holydays start with New Year (31/12-1/01),continue with orthodoxal Christmas (6/01-7/01),than Old New Year (13-14/01).Somebody begins with catolical Christmas and continue after Old N.Y. with other feasts, of pagan origins, like "farewell,winter" ecc.But New Year is most romantic.It's a mix of "normal" holiday and Carneval and is common for all population,when others somebody likes them,somebody not.



What do you know about Nocera?(2)

You are right.I tell you about Nocera and post photos of Salerno.Unfortunately the weather is not good and I can post only something old now.So here you see the only way from Nocera to Salerno.Why "the only"?There are mountins on the right (you see them) and on the left too.So all the ways passed millenniums ago and pass today only here,in the middle.
Where finish the earth (on the photo) begins the Sea.

And from sea came in the vale of Nocera interesting people named Pelasgi, that settled near one of the rivers.Today you see sewers on it's place (seems, somebody begin to understand it too),but 3 millenniums ago it was a big and beautiful river.In memory of their motherland pelasgi called it Sarno and themself Sarrasti.

Why leave this people their home?Somebody says it was the way to free their motherlands from excessive population.Greeks gave a vessel to a group of young man born in the same year and sent them to explore new places for colonies,Sannits sent those groups behind a sacred animal...Others think those goups had to look for metals for motherland.Others more tell about pirates and criminals catched from their earth...Maybe all these opinions are true.And we have the result:about 1 millennium befor Christ the vale of Nocera was populated by Pelasgi.

Have you ever thought about the sense of words? I know not many use to do it.
It's sooooo incredibly interesting! Where come this or that word from? Words very often conserve memories from our ancestral roots.Nobody remembers, only some word can reveal the secret...if there is one,who can understand what that word hides.Science, studies it, is called etymology.But when we speak about more then 3 millenniums ago even etymology hardly can help us too much.So we have to use immagination too.

Where came these persons from?Nobody knows it,clear.We can immagin Pelasgi liked travel very much.They rounded the world and rested their steps,memory of their motherland, in all places they had reached.
Crio (Macedonia),Creusa (Acaia),Crium (Creta),Cria (Licia)...
Nu-Kria("new" Kria)...Nu-ceria...Nocera -today.

We are romantic ,our specie.We can't feel happy if stay at home, but we are nostalgic when we are far from our house....

And Sarrasti? They controlled the vale of Nocera about 300 years and then gave up to other adventurers.

( review of "Storia di Nocera de'Pagani",G.Orlando,1884)

Saturday, December 16, 2006

What do you know about Nocera?(1)

Salerno from highway

My dear Archeological Group of Salerno sent me an invitation to partecipate on the opening of a new exhibition "World of Animals in the Medioeval Art in Campania".Unfortunately I'm not a member of the group this year,but I like those nice persons and I miss them.


I like ancient history and learn everything I can about places where I live.But what I learned about Nocera was simply incredible.It's a pity,
many residents of this zone don't know proper history,traditions and go to look for them to americans and others.Americans,you are great,but we are interesting because we are different,not as from the same incubator.

When I come to live here,this zone was in a terrible condition but in last years it become as a flower that comes out in spring.The other flower in this bouquet is Salerno -beautiful,very quiet city,where you can walk through the streets in the night too.I love Salerno.It's mayor did great job and now it's a jewel.Salerno was founded by Roman veterans.In it's center the Archeological Group preserves Roman treasure in a little church of Longobards...Every step you do,under your feet there are many layers of history there.
Salerno See front
But Salerno has not so Great History as Nocera.Our city was capital of Sannits,it has it's own alphabet,there were battles and fashinating stories about Gots,Hannibal and senators,killed in thermae with steam...Like in those famouse films.Nocera was great many centuries befor Christ.
Maybe I have to tell you it's story...

Thursday, December 14, 2006

Christmas.Italy.

I go out in the street.Days passed near PC can't replace normal everyday life.Ah! The sun is shying as in summer,there is no wind,it's really warm.Infact,that woman has a blouse with short handles...

Now I see finally people wait for Christmas.Our street is adorned with inflatable Santas hanging under the windows of almost all houses.How is it possible?All residents buyed the same Santa?But the street is nice.

Some days I read news about "Christmas wars" and how "the godless liberals and atheists" transgress centuries-old christian tradition.Here in Italy maybe -fortunately- nobody thinks about it.Everybody everywhere makes a manger scene.From little and great and alive statues.They say, it brings fortune to see these scenes.I post them here for you.












In the evening,24 December,after 18:00,you can find nobody in the street.Some mad car,maybe.The holy tradition to eat in the family this evening.

Not many persons are here in the street.Most of them are shopmen,that have nothing to do in their shops and pass the day for the door of their bench to look on rare bypassers,to speak with colleagues and to drink coffee.Shop-signs change with incredible speed in our zone.Only few businesses resist more than some months.Very poore befor,with euro most hardly arrive to the end of the month.So in this period you can find bars and pizzerie every 20 meters and supermarkets every 50.And to think that some years ago there were only 2 supermarkets in all Salerno and 2 here, in all our zone.Once there were many discounts where you could buy food of little quality, and you could pass all day in toilett after you had eaten it.Today you can find discounts too and you have to see what happens there in the days of great shopping,friday and saturday.

One woman with a little child enter in the street.The girl sees the great Santa for one of the shops.You remember the enormous eyes of a child that sees a "real Santa"?His astonishment?Can you immagin YOU on his place?Try to live it again,this sense of miracle.It's beautiful.And if you do it every day befor Christmas and New Year....Yes,what I said?Ah,the girl...The owner of the shop immediately wakes up from his lethargy,but the woman is able to pull her doughter in time away.The shopman falls asleep for his door once more.


What do you want,it's true,in popular culture miracle and all hopes represent Santa Claus and the Tree and not the story about infant Jesus.I think this comes from our ancestral roots.From our memory of the times, when we knew to be children of the Nature,and respected our Mother else.We remembered She can give us everything and can deprive us of everything.Maybe we could be more happy if we could turn back to respect her.

And now is time for me to enter the bar too.A cup of coffee will bring me in reality.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Emotional mistreatment -"bad" chief,parents,friends

."......Disrespect and emotional mistreatment can range from continuous bullying and discrimination from family members, co-workers or peers on a daily basis ......"

As said,I think we have to begin with ourselfs.I propose you to use millenary buddhist technic and observe our mind.What we find there?

When we dig up our soul very deep,we find an interesting thing: every our movement we control if others like us.It's incredible,but we are depending from the opinion of other people about us as druggies from their dope.And this is not last news we find.

If we continue to dig up our soul we find that every moment we observe us to understand what is THIS (this "I") and if we like it.

Maybe you don't believe me.Do it.Observe yourself.

--I'm sad.Why? He/she said me a bad word.

First.What is "bad"? Is any difference for you if you hear "A" or "U",for example?Those are only sounds,nothing more.Say that "bad" word to a person that don't understand your language.
So you understand that this difference is YOU,because are you who define this word as "bad".

Second.Your chief said you this bad word,because he is in a bad emotional state today.He "pass" you his bad emotion and free himself from this emotion in this way.He knows you catch it(or he trains you if you are new there).You are ready to catch it.You wait for it.You define this words as "bad".You show him how much you depend from his good or bad emotional state.And it's in our nature to be content to see others depending from us.It's enough to see some husbands.Like young animals that have to catch their parents to replace them,those persons will try and try and try again.Or they understand you are untouchable,or they can do what they want with you.

These problems you have always in the school.I said you,I worked in school for 15 years and I know what I tell you.Maybe I write about it in my next post.

Now immagin this person (not MY CHIEF but THIS PERSON -very powerful exercise,you know,to call somebody "my" with extraneous "this person".It works even with "mother".) enter in your room in this state.He has this twisted face with those sounds that go out from his twisted mouth.If you see this scene as a comic film (why not?What is the difference?) will you define these words as "bad"?No.

So we turn back to YOU.It's not your chief that says you bad words.It's you that define what you see or hear as "bad" or "good".Right?Why?Because you are not sure that this person defines you as "good".You are not sure,you want to be accepted -you are afraid not to be accepted by other persons.
Why? maybe better I give you an example.We can't see our face.To see it we use mirror.
Our "I" can't see himself.He uses opinion of other persons.

And the thing becomes terrible if our twinkled "mirror" are the most near to us persons.Family members,co-workers or peers.

Once "I" understood that he is "bad",begins to wait for bad treatment,every word he hears is bad,every movement is bad,tragedy.....

So far,what can we do?How can we help our poore "I" ?
--Begin with 40-days training with "I'm good so as I am" ( read here) and other sentences
--identify "my"-person that consciously mistreate you and do "this person" exercise ( I wrote befor).If it is your mother for example you love so much,don't be afraid you don't love her more.You will reach only emotional indipendance but not lose your love.
-- observe youself and explain you what is happend after every situation,why you have this exagerate reaction.What reaction wait from you those persons.
--finally turn your look into you and find where is the thought that provoke this pain.In the mind?In the heart?Look at this place,observe it.Once more.Once more.You see?You have not more your ache.
--do everyday meditation

Here I have to say I'm not agree with those scientists (my older post) that say we have to be treated bad to wake up.We are so often mistreated in our life,most of us lose the capacity to resist,to stand kicks.Norbekov could choose only 3-5 person from 500 (approximately,I don't remember real numbers he writes) of terminaly ill persons that had forces to resist.And they are healthy today.We need first to recover this forces in our soul,I think.

Friday, December 08, 2006

How to do?-Everyday meditation for everybody and disrespect and emotional mistreatment

"...the meditation exercise I do I posted it on the page Bön of MyInterests Site. ..."

The thing that strucked me in these last days was to read how many persons are suffering different problems concerning their emotional state, about disrespect and emotional mistreatment.Different authors write (and TV-journalists speak too) about how we feel in family and at work,about women that have to hear everyday incalculable offensive calls....

I had this problem in my family too.Telephone was simple to resolve.I disconnect it befor we go to sleep.And when those idiots knew it's possible to see their number,they began to think sometimes.

Other problem is mistreatment at work.Here (as for me) there are 2 parts:
1/- emotional state of the person is not stable,he/she feels every gesture,word as offensive.Without offensive content or intention.
2/- others look for somebody who has excessive reaction on their provocations.
What I write here is maybe known for all scientists,but in our everyday life we don't think about it.We suffer all our life without doing a step -very simple step-to help us.


The first simple step is to change our model of thinking about ourself.
You maybe will laugh,but I assure you it works perfectly.For at least 40 days every day repeat to you 10-20 times at once

"I'm good so as I am" or
"I can do everything and will be successful" or
"don't exist problems,only possibilities" or
"they are so because it's their way to exist" ecc

We don't like hard sun or rain.What we do?We accept them and try to protect us.Are we angry with them?No.It's silly.Somebody is afraid of them -it's an illness.Do we try to change it?No.It's the way how the world exist.

You can have 1-10 sentences to repeat...I have an arm-band with 21 pieces on it,so I repeat one sentence 11 times,then other 11 times or if I think the sentence is very important in this period,I repeat it 21 times....

Add other positive sentences.Some days you'll think "It's stupidity",but continue to do this exercise,don't stop.Repeat and repeat and repeat.It works really.
You can read about it in different books.I'll post the titles lately.And there are many positive phrases you can repeat,but they have to be without wrong words.One Author is Mirzakarim Norbekov (here you can find one of his books in russian and the site of Norbekov.I can't say you if there are translations of his books in other languages.) Other is John Kehoe (this is his site ,here is one of his books in russian).I like books of these authors,but it not meens that there aren't other books about it.

Second step is not to show your reaction to others.If they consciously do something to you is because they wait for your reaction.Begin with show indifference.Sure they will repeat what they do different times else,but without your reaction the pastime is not interesting.


Now I want to offer you the meditation exercise I do.I posted it on the page Bön of MyInterests Site. Do this exercise so much times you want,it will give you calm and stability.And happiness, with time.

Many persons begin to cry they are not interested in other religions,they hate this thought ecc ecc.But here I don't write about other religions.I write you about YOUR HEALTH -don't metter what is your religion.
If you are believer of one of the religions -better for you,because you can heal quicker.This is the only difference for those who do this exercise.Nothing more.

Try it.I'm sure you will enjoy it (after some time of experience,at the beginning it's hard to stop the mind).

Wednesday, December 06, 2006

How I decided to be a Writer


May I present you other photo to create Christmas feeling?

Did you try this?
This possibility I had not described you yet.In these period I study ways to become a writer.You can write articles,e-mails,eBooks,e-this,e-that...Oh yeees,there are rules and tricks to study.But it is closer to my original profession.So I try this too.Why not?Can it be I was writer from my birth,but never new about it?

I found 3 sites that offers money for writing and translating.2 of them wanted monthly fee (about 13 dollars) so I rejected them.(...I do it too...).So now I have one where I have not pay others for my work.

Go to Shvoong.com.Read terms (what do you think,I read them now) .I read some "essays",decided it's too difficult,begin with writing, have to see how write their expert writers and try to translate.It was incredible difficult.Maybe because it was the first time...or I didn't that work for a long time.
I don't know if they will pay me.But it will be a good training for me anyway.

Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Once more about money making possibilities

shary mal

Off topic
Eh...I hope everybody can feel this Christmas that is nearer and nearer.This evening I passed catching Christmas images and now I understand that the greatest feast of the year is not so far.I dedicate you this photo because you are the best and your success is coming,believe in it.

Next part of my money-making-possibilities voyage.
So I promised you to report here about my money-making-possibilities research.About 2 weeks ago I finished the story with new advices of internet-experts.They said me:post banners and links on your web-page,sit comfortable in your arm-chair and wait that money begin rain on your head.LOL.Not so,really.But you can earn something good enough.

It's very easy to create a site today.Completly gratis,without spending one cent.Everybody can do it,even if you see PC first time in your life.I don't know,if it could be interesting for somebody,maybe I will write one day about it.There are some tricks to know,but generally is very-very easy.

The problem is not to have a site.The problem is to have active visitors of your site.Not that you had understand that this masterpiece have to see as more persons as possible,this step you passed jet,but you did it to stay in contact with somebody,no?And today you want this site and this electronic device must earn their bread.And on this point we finished last time.

I said you,you can go to my site and see all what I will post during the next week.I went to Amazon.com,LinkShare and 2 other sites that offer links and banners to post.For Google I'm persona-non-grata,so this way was not for me.At first I was sad about it,but now I'm very content,because after I read terms of use very good,I don't like them.Read them,it's interesting,even fun and educative.
One of sites I cancelled from the memory of my PC and from my too is like Adsence.Those wrote to me:
-we don't accept you because you have other similar services on your pages.
Interesting.In that moment I had nothing,they were the first site I wrote.Other site,thanks,was more clear
-we don't work with new sites and those who has less than 500 visitors a day,
-who has not very interesting content,
other 6-7 reasons you can find what is about you.
LinkShare offers you many companies to ask for their banners and links.They have terms of use too.Some of them want you,others -no (-we don't work with those who has less then 10 000 visitors pro month),others don't write to you at all.
Bad feeling,you know.To be rejected.Today I learned "how to sell yourself"-article.Advise:the first you have to learn is to stand a reject,because only 1 or 2 of 50,100 your request-letters will give you work,other employers will reject you.

Yes,it's true.Some month earlier I passed many time to plant in my head the thought,that I'm good so as I am, and that I will reach success.It helped me with those rejects too.Befor, if I received those letters,I would be crushed,annihilate.Now I was a little sad,but I know,that I'm so good, and this is only a case,because it works in this way.Nothing.It works so,the thing.Next time I'll be more successful.The sun is hot.The water is wet.This world,that I explore now, works so.It is not personal for me,but the way to exist of this world.

So to finish about this sort of internet business,I have to add,that from those companies that accepted me,some did it only for about 40 days,others without limits.
Today,after about 2 weeks I have more then 1000 impressions and only from 5 (all LinkShare banners) till 26 (Amazon) clicks.Clicks.Not ordins.And after 2 weeks these sites will reject me too, while I do not sell.And they will have all reasons.
Somebody will say me,that to have profits from your business you have to work 2-3 years.Yes,it's true.When the famous terms and limits they write you.Pls answer this easy question:do you think those companies that alow you to post their banners on your site,don't know it?Were come these limits like 45 days from?Statistic I found once said, you have to wait for 1 ordin every 10 (or 100?) 000 impressions.....

I think,I have to read terms of these companies too.I hope they don't say me than that I have pay them for disturb...

I don't want to say you have renunce of this business creation.The only thing I say,we have to count these statistics in our beginning-plan.

Sunday, December 03, 2006

Lookers-Bookers shock

Some days ago I wrote about shock I had when I read an article about "Lookers" and "Bookers" (here I wrote about it).

On my way to find a new profession,to receive new professional skills I meet sellers first of all.They are very active and agressive -and it is simple to understand them,their world is so great,competitive, and seems the only way to sell something is to cheat others.I have this impression.Their teachers say, they want "very motivated" young people.Why?Because marketing they teach you is nothing as unscrupulousness in the ways to sell.

One article told me today what I have to do to sell myself.It's true,a normal little person don't know do it (excuse me, I like "Kleiner Mann-was nun?" by Hans Fallada).But when you begin to learn this art,you understand, it is something that overturns all your vision of the life.

So is very simple, why they seek for young men.Those want to earn great money,don't think too much about good-not good ways,have more energy and are easy to manage.I thought so about this phenomenon.Mature person more difficult can leave moral rules (if he/she has them).

I don't know,you ,do you like when somebody "press" you?In this way I could be convinced 1 time,but the second time you can't fool me with this method.I don't like to be treated in this way.You?How many times you partecipated on the scene:
A young girl tells you so much about a product you don't need.You hear mostly because she is so...young,wants so much you stop and hear her....but this don't meens you will buy.The chief of the girl sees she is unable to "work" and intervene.With aggression he/she begins to speak to you....What do you do? I go away.

This is the mail I received from my ex-chief from internet-supermarket.Written in italian,but I want you see the method to communicate.We don't work together,he and I,we leaved that supermarket because it was a fraud.But he don't learned from the first time,now he is one of the founders of an other supermarket (only founder can earn there).If exist persons who don't know what it is,these young men will try to catch them.

AL PARTECIPARE AD UN MEETING/EVENTO O SEMPLICEMENTE LEGGENDO UN
LIBRO . . . . !!!! E CE NE SONO DAVVERO DI BELLISSIMI DI IMPORTANTI DI
TESTI CHE IN TANTI MOMENTI MI HANNO AIUTATO A CAPIRE E VEDERE
LE COSE DAL VERSO GIUSTO . . . .
COSì NE HO PRESO UNO DI QUELLI CHE MI HANNO COLPITO, CHE IN QUESTO
MOMENTO PUò ESSERCI D'AIUTO L'HO PORTATO IN TIPOGRAFIA FATTO
TRASFORMARE IN FILE " PDF " ED ORA LO TROVATE IN ALLEGATO A QUESTA
MAIL . . . . .
INVESTI TU STESSO E CREATI IL TUO FUTURO CON LE TUE FORZE . . . . .
NESSUNO LO FARA' PER TE ! ! ! ! !! ! !

Why I remembered "Lookers and Bookers"?I used these words with young people (20-25) and they were disgusted to here them as I was befor.So I said to me (thinking about this marketing teachers):they are criminals too.Because they create a black background in the souls of our young generation.As a teacher I think, parents and teachers have to plant seeds of Good,it is their Holy Duty.Ruin the soul of growing person to put some dollars in own pocket is even not crime,it is piece of devilry.

Maybe I begin to become too old.

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Christmas story of a little girl

Finally is it dark.In winter is not necessary to wait,darkness comes very early.Parents turn on the lights of the christmastree and go into the kitchen.
And now the fable is visible.
She enters the room and sees only the twinkling tree in the darkness.
One step nearer.One more.
Old toys wake up.Blue house with snow and icicles on the roof opens it's door and a small man comes out.He walks the path of balls till reindeer,than till white hare ,then together they go and go (she turns the tree) and reach the red moon,they continue their journey,meet other characters and beautiful places....

One year her father clothed like Santa Claus and put home a sack with all possible gifts.The girl could not belive her happiness.She chanted and danced and said poems for every gift......Some days later her parents found her crying in a corner."Why?"-"You don't love me.You have gifted nothing to me for Christmas..."-"And the sack of gifts....?"-"No,those were from Santa"-"You are so a great girl,you know,there is no Santa..."-"It's not true.There is Santa, and he came to me and took gifts for me!" Nothing to do,the poor parents had to buy other gifts for the doughter.

That girl is old today.Her children buy gifts for their little girls.
She don't believes Santa Claus more and said me,she don't has the special Christmas-feeling in the last years.Maybe it is strange, to hear something like this from an old woman,but it's pitty to lose this sence of wonder,said she.

I thought about this story and asked my friends what is the faith.As a person that had atheistic roots,I envied people that have REAL faith.But now I think faith is when we feel that there is something wonderful in the life.Life is a miracle.

Thursday, November 30, 2006

"Bad news" for all us

11 years I'm married in Italy and all this time I'm very angry with TV,magazines ecc for the information of incredible stupidity,falsity,cretinism that I hear and see about Russia and russians.

No,what I write here is not about Russia and russians,but I want to write here, in this blog, the truth about life and what can be more true than your native country?Yes,it is relative truth,because seen by interested person,but it is.

So I return to russians and western mass media.
There are some examples that come in the head.

1.Everybody knows,that americans won the second world war.That war begins in 1939.In 1942 russians begin to catch fascists from their country, in 1944-45 arrive in Germany.At this point (less or more) thank God americans have the wish to disembark in Normandia -and with this huge gesture the war is won by allieds.No battles,no other nations,no movements of Resistance.One disembark -and everything is finished.5 years of war finished with one gesture.(this is what we have to believe -and we believe)
I don't tell you here about people.I honore all who lived that trouble.I visited concentration camps in Lettonia,Lithuania -there on the walls you can find last messages of persons from Austria,Germania ecc ecc,exterminated villages in Belorussia and Lithuania...I honour little persons from all nations.
Here I amaze how great persons turn information.And we,little persons,do what they want.We believe them.
Without comments.Only facts.

2 fact.Everybody knows,that americans were first to explore space.This fact I heared many years in TV(here in Italy).Now, 2-3 years,seems that they changed the point of view.Americans were first to disembark on the Moon,but first in the space were russians (Jurij Gagarin).
Do you know what was the most amazing in the story of Moon(for me) ?I read and seen different sites and TV programms,where Americans show that their disembark is false and Russians show (with scientists) that disembark is true.At the end I could not understand more:were americans on the Moon?

3 fact.After "Kursk"-tragedy writes one of the popular italian magazines,"Familia Cristiana", very great article about russian Navy with many photos ecc (november).The main thought of this article is:after the war with Japan and defeat in 1905 ,russian Navy could never recover its forces, and from this time russian sailors feel always, they are worse as other sailors in the world.
I could not believe my eyes.

Sometimes I hear TV-news with one italian journalist in Russia (name Sergio,his last name I don't know).Everything he tells is to underline how russians are bad and everything in Russia is bad.I'm sure, the life he has in Russia is as "in butter"(proverbaly).We,russians,adore friends,specially foreign friends,spacially italian friends.We do all we can for them,we "give them our last shirt" if they need it.Knowing it I ask me:WHY this journalist tells this stupidities?Something like this:have you seen that those cretins russians cloth president-guards with clothes militaries had 2 centuries ago !!!!!!! Signor Sergio,have you ever seen what clothes have president-guards in Italy?Or Switzer-guards in Vatican?Maybe you have never seen others,but these you cannot ignore...

Some days ago I heared other journalist.American maybe,that loves russians and Russia and worked some years in Tchetchenia.He said so:about Russia you have to write bad or very bad.Only this you can sell to editor.If you write good,nobody will buy your article.Editors are afraid thy canot sell their magazine with good words about Russia,if bad and scandalous -they are sure they sell it good.

Finaly from russians I pass to all others.

Because that words of american journalist are truth for all and everything.
We want to read bad and scandalous facts about others.
We want to feel informated about it and pass this information to others.

This our particolarity I can see on my sites too.Logicaly I have analyzing programs that give me reports who,from were visited my sites,what pages read ecc.You know it.Every site has these programs.If you see on the bottom of this page,you can see YOU on the visitors map.If you don't know about it.

What pages are most visited?About how to help GRATIS other persons?No.I receive only mails that we are afraid about our e-mail addresses.Even if you know me and you know that I'll never do something like give your address to others nè will use it for promotional or other aims.

So,my riddle:what post is the most read in MyKitchen ? Success! "Bad thoughts".It was second after "Art" befor,but now is leader.And to think that I wrote it many times ago.

Yesterday I read that we all are devided by sellers in Lookers and Bookers.All are Lookers and only 1-2 are Bookers(those who book,ordin what you sell).When somebody become seller,begins to speak bad about others."People want to be treated like cretins"-said me one friend,-"you have to treat them so if you want to be successful." (PS.This man sold flats and some months after we spoke with him I knew, that 2 clients waited for him one night and beat him hardly for a flat he sold them)

The main thought of this my post:Why we ASK to be treated as cretins ?
Why others are paid to treat us as cretins?

Monday, November 27, 2006

Work at home/home business opportunity scams

New info added! 08/12-2006

When you look for something,you need to be prepared to hear all kinds of opinions about you or about what you are seeking.I wrote different times about work at home/home business opportunity scams and I found today this article written from one of internet-experts,I think.The autor wanted to control,how is it possible that there are so many scams in this business ( 98-99% !!! according to the article) and if those who writes about it is really honest person and not an idiot that let fool himself 37 times.

As I said ( in this post ),on my way to find legal and real possibility to work with help of internet,I catch,I think all tipes of swindlers.Not 37 times,but not one.And here I tell what I sperimented personally,not what I heard from somebody.I don't know,who was that person scamed 37 times,but maybe he says about 37 sites not times.What is the difference?
First of all I want to underline that we speek about newbees,persons that don't know,what they do.

When you began to look for job,you begin to receive many mails with different job-offers.

First job-looking person hunters you will meet
Most of them are from Herbalife,DHC (if I remember this name good),Wellbizz, other names I really don't remember now,but all these have the same structure:"we have an incredible work for you,see this site http://...";when you see that site,they want you speak with their consult,then you have to see 1 hour film to understand what is this work about (no one word about it),then you have to see other 6-hours film where you can find no one useful word and finally they born the most important thing:give me 200-600 euro and begin to work.

Second sort of hunters
After this you receive a mail with other offer.The autor explains with all details what and how you have to do and assure you his help.Those are PPC,Pay-per-Click jobs.
You can open mails or surf the web.Every site you see with mails that you receive,they promise to pay you 0,002 dollars.But this you don't know else.You think:this is real job to began with.When I do some money,I'll pass to something best.

And here we can explain those famose 37 times,that have to be 37 sites.
The first mail said you: first day you have to open accounts in these 10 sites.
After 3-5 days add these 20 sites (10 + 20= 30)
After that open other 20 accounts ( 30 + 20= 50)
When you begin to open mails,you understand that to reach 50-60-100 dollars with 0,002 per mail you have to work very hard.If you work all day,you need about more than month to reach this sum.So you begin to add new and new sites to your collection.You read about this business in sites like Advertopia that give you advices,select those who are good for you or not good...
And finally you can be paid!!!Adwertopia said that this site will pay you!!!And other advices-sites said it too.Happy you request your payment.Some sites promise you to pay one month,other - 2-6 months after request.
Today I don't remember the names of sites I worked for.Only 2 or 3 like silvanamails,ippomails,google-mails,donkeymails,orangemails... what else?It was 2-3 years ago.I never received no one dollar from all those sites.

False-promoter and eBay-sellers hunters
Next swindle I experimented was an internet-supermarket.
About supermarket I wrote in other post.But inside this experience there were others.
So I was one of promoters of that supermarket.At the beginning I thought,this project was done to create promoters.Later I understood,that they don't need promoters,they need consumers.YOU have to buy,because the "middlemen" are owners of that supermarket.(more about this strategy of marketing)
But at the beginning I honestly worked as promoter.
I wrote about goods that supermarket sells and became mails from people that have sons in UK embassy in Nigeria and want to send them very expensive cells and laptops.I had to send the pack to Nigeria and become "payment after shipping" from Western Union,different banks.
Later in one of the sites I read an article from police about this criminals from Afrika.It's very dangerous.Not only you have to lose your money (you send the pack,you receive false check,the check-sum is too high and you,honest person,send rest to your client to entrust him) but at the end,writes police, you can arrive in Nigeria and there you lose your documents and your freedom too.
Fortunately for me I was only promoter.
One of those "clients" wrote me some months later with Messenger that he needs I pay his journey to Europe "to black men meeting".Incredible.They believe,we are finished idiots,rich white from Europe.

"Mom" and other "relatives" hunters
One month ago I had the second part of my "Afrikan adventure".I posted my profile in MySpace and began to receive mails from african boys.I'm 45,married and not interested to find boyfriends.So I answered one very nice and very educated mail in this sence.After that I began to receive a rain of mails.They call me "mom" and tell me how is hard the life of orfans or something like this.The first mail writes a person that knows english very good.Then they write so,that is pratically unpossible to understand one word.But at the end the main sence is "give me money".

Attention to terms of use
Other problem I had with Google Adsence.I opend an account with them and posted their adds in my site.But I didn't read the terms of use,it's too difficult to read so enormous texts in english.So while I really love internet-surfing,I began to "surf" with comfort directly from my site.Naturally after some days I received a mail from Google that they suspend my account.I had to do something,but the text in english was so long and difficult to understand that I ignored it.So now I'm "persona non grata" for Google.Honestly I understood my mistake and wanted to make peace with Google,opening an other account but today I received the mail that they refuse me.......

"American Green Card Lottery"-dreamer hunters
Oh,I completly forgot other swindlers."American Green Card Lottery".Different months ago my friends said me about this possibility and registered me to this lottery.I don't know,how is it possible that governative initiative offers dates of registered people to the third parts,but it was something incredible.First of all there were courses of english language,than I began to receive mails from this lottery,those mails are very professional,with all necessary sighs,that you are sure who is writing to you.I wrote my number of telephon there and on the next page understood who are those.I cancelled the mail,but they register what you write when you open the mail and write your phone number.So they began to phone me.Why?If you give me money,I'll post your name in 70 first names that will win.pull out your credit card and you will win.Hours and hours of calls.They don't understand that you maybe have problems to understand those who speaks so quickly (but it's their mode of marketing -speak quick,with great emotion:Ohhh!!!Now!!!Gooooooo!!!!!We doooooo iiittt!!!!!!!,repeat the name of the person every sentence,press him in this way and at the end "draw out your credit card").Second,they don't understand that not everybody in Europe has a credit card (many canot find job for all their lifes). If a person has a credit card,why hell he needs America?

Now,as I wrote earlier,I want to see if it is possible to follow advices of Steve P. about other business opportunities.But...
It is a hobby already.Or an illness?

New! (08/12-2006) A lovely personal site ( from review of MY Interests Site ) - with a very valuable link to a blog about internet scams!! Please add 1StepSystem to your list of scams... I'm still fighting for my refund! Best wishes, Liz.

List of mail programms I worked with in a comment.

Thank you Liudmila.


Hello dear Liudmila,
Thank you for your very true and friendly words about my happy news .. You are really a very sweet person..
Lots of kisses to you from Rania my daughter.
Have a hppy day dear.
Hugs..
Sayed

The Hieroglyphic and Arabic name of Maleek



Hi dear friends,
Here are the name of Maleek written in both
Hieroglyphic and Arabic.
Hugs.
Sayed

Congratulations,Sayed!!!




How many great loves will you have now!!!!!
What want you do?
All the best for mum and all the family and great kiss to baby !
I hope his life will be long and happy !!!

Very happy news.


Hello my beloved friends,
Right now I have got the happy news about my daughter and her baby..
Thanks to God the baby has arrived and both he and his mom are OK and will be out of the hospital early tomorrow...
Now I am really happy that Mr, Maleek (The name of the new baby) is taking his first lunch. LOL
Please wish them all the best of luck..
My love to you all..
The very happy Sayed

Sunday, November 26, 2006

Merry Christmas Mail Experiment

e-mail me

My Interests Site proposes all to help other people.Here is the explanation of sence of this experiment

"......The first experiments title is Merry Christmas Mail Experiment.It's very simple and it's purpose is to help all us to donate joy to others.

Think,how many people need just one good word,a smile.I understand that many of them have no PC,but somebody has it.And so we can donate them our smile.Many of us can't donate money or gifts,but this gesture costs 0 for all who will partecipate,only our time and wish to help........."

Entire text you can read in Experiments-page

Pass this notice,partecipate,donate smile to other persons.


Saturday, November 25, 2006

Monetize your site (for beginners)

All my days now are dedicated to study how works internet.
Once you have internet connection 24/24 you begin to think if it's possible to use it first to provoke your creativity (I meen sites creation),than you understand,that it's not enough for you,you want somebody appreciate your work (because it is a great work for newbees),than you are not content because your creation doesn't attract great crowds of visitors, and at last you begin to think:Why can't I earn money?This machinery eats my money,time,my life -it's holy duty is to produce income at least to cover the charge.

You are right.
Here maybe I have to tell you my very-very sad story about how I looked for earning money in internet.I have to tell it that you know what can wait for you on this way.Yes,I think I caught all possible swindles.

But for beginning I want give you a good notice:there are legal and good ways to earn some money if you have your own site.This is the word of very expert persons like Steve Pavlina (so we have to think about them).I began to follow these advices.Go to the home-page of MyInterestsSite and explore it.You'll find there some possibilities today.And I'll add others next week when I try to work with them.Sites you can see there are good not only because recommended as very entrust,but they accept beginners as we,those who has less then 500 visitors a day.
Ehhhh,it's true,if you have less than 500 visitors a day you are not a person for many-many-many bad internet-pals.I could learn it on my skin and so what you see on MY site is aproved for little people.And you can avoid the sad experience to be reject.
Nothing.We will be as good rangers in american westerns:go out from all ... situations and win at the end.
Don't forget to visit MyInterestsSite different times next week,I'll update it.And I'll post links to sites that work with us,beginners too.

Please help me to increase this list of links if you know other good sites.

And now to my collection of swindles.
I began with Pay-Per-Click (PPC) work.If you ever did it,you know that it is as in a factory.You open and open and open mails,see sites that they present,you have to reach a sum of points and than webmaster of the site has to pay you.
When I did this work,I noticed: when I open sites that links this or that webmaster,my PC doesn't work and after some time I had to reinstal my PC .One of them was "Hugemail" or something like this.
Nobody of all those webmasters paid me."Ippomails","Silvanamails",others -nobody.

My second experience was with a "first italian online supermarket"."Digistore".
They sold me a sub-site.The price was,I think,600 euro.Praticaly I was "middleman" of "middleman".I had to sell goods of this company that sold goods of other companies.From this activity I had my 0,00000...%.But the greatest task was to look for recruits.The hidden purpose of all this great action was that all italians had to buy goods in this store.
To find recruits I had to telephone about 50 persons a day,than I had to destribute leaflets. I had to do it with my money for that 0,000...% that company promised to give me.But the most interesting thing was to reveal that all this is illegal in Italy.I knew it the day when police catched me.And when I asked in the company how is it possible that they learn me to do illegal things,they answered:we know nothing,it was your personal initiative.

My other experiences I'll post next time.I'll tell you about swindlers from Africa.

Thursday, November 23, 2006

I love internet surfing

I realy love it.
There are so many interesting sites as content and others as design.So I do it every daywith great pleasure:surf internet.
Unfortunately I know only one program that offers the tipe of surfing I like:StumbleUpon.

Somebody can say me,I can be paid for it when I surf with PPC sites,but I assusre you:don't believe to these persons.When I became internet for 24 hours, I started with all this PPC.I worked from 7 in the morning till the night ,but no one of all those sites paid me.And than,the sites presented in these programs are not interested first and often contain viruses -second.

So now when I have my own site,dedicated one page to sites I like "Interesting links I found".I surf the web and when I find something interesting,"put" it there.I have an interesting collection that grows from day to day,but never thought it can't be interesting for others,so was very surprised to see always growing number of clicks near my list.One part of it,180 sites for today, I presented in a specific Google Search Engine, Bon,Dzogchen,Buddhism ,I wrote about it some days ago.Now my dreem is to collect ALL my favorite sites in a special site,where they will be available for free surfing without tricks.
You,don't you like free surfing without tricks?

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Hava Nagila special version

Для тех,кто ещё не видел этот парадокс Xaва-Нагила

Healthy food

Healthy food is for my family not a last question.We are not too joung more and began to think about conditions of our bodys.Alternative medicine says that many (and some says all) illnesses come from our food customs."You are what you eat",your body smells from what you eat.Once I read,often women are attract of men of one nation,because they have the same smell caused from food habits of a nation.This confermed me one girl that said:"I don't like r... men while they stink,I like i... men that smell nice".In one sence this has to be true.

But today I write about diets,vegetarian food and fast.I found an interesting explanation that contains all this customs.You can find it in "Argumenty i fakty"N°14,2006 written by Rinad Minvaleev.He says the food has to stay in our stomach for about 3-4 hours to digest proteins (meat for ex.).Only dietary fibers,cellulosa (vegetables) and pectins (fruits) have to reach intestine.There they ferment.Proteins in intestine began to putrify.This is the difference.

The physiologists know that "good" bacteries are not active with full moon and there is great danger to grow putirfying bacteries.So with full and growing moon is better to fast.Than with new moon eat meat.

One more.If you eat meat and than drink cold orangeade,proteins pass to your intestine in 15-20 minutes and to your stomach rest only sugar to digest.........

Monday, November 20, 2006

Microwave pressure cooker and steam cooking

One month ago I began to write about Microwave pressure cooker ,my first experience and my sufferings to find something in internet about this curious machinery.In this period I tried to cook with it,but understood:it is not for cooking,but is only good for the first part of the preparation.A piece of meat is half ready in 15 minutes,but there is difference in taste with a piece of meat boiled normally.So I thought is better to begin cooking with microwaves and then give taste in a normal frying-pan.
Today I decided that it's time to eat healthy and cook vegetables in a Microwave stream cooker.For those who had never seen them (I wrote about it) I post here a photo.
About healthy food I wrote many times.Articles from other sites about Food intollerance you can see here and here.
This time I want to explore steam cooking.Everybody knows that it's good,but maybe I'll find something interesting to add.
I wanted to see what others say about it.Summary you can read on the site-page
My personal experience was not good.I prepared 1-2 times vegetables on steam,but could not eat them.It was disgusting.Now I remembered tips from alternative medicine (tibetan) that I have to eat only boiled vegetables to feel good...And immagin,my method was good.I cooked vegetables in the Microwave stream cooker and then put them into the frying-pan with butter.It was good to eat,but I added adjika-sauce and had a deliciouse course.

Bon,Dzogchen,Buddhism Search Engine

For those who looks for answers,study and enjoy the incredible world of Bon,Dzogchen,Buddhism I created this specific Bon,Dzogchen,Buddhism Search Engine
I invite all interested persons to send me other links you know about this and to publish the notice.
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Pls visit board in My Kitchen where I decided to write Bon,Dzogchen,Buddhism News from my sites.I think you'll enjoy the info I posted there.

Saturday, November 18, 2006

SEO Tips for Content for Beginners

Mmmmm.....I have to say you,it's realy enormous work at my age not only to learn a new speciality,but to leaarn something like a site optimisation.I try to understand all this special articles,ruls;pass days for PC,my husband forgot how I'm looking,my dog asks me every day why we don't go for a walk...and I study.
Here I want to write a summary of what I found in all those infinite books and articles with one theme:
SEO Tips for Content
I do it to systematize info I acquired in these days,so don't expect large explanations.Only the sum.
  • Headline has to be attractive,because visitors don't read they scan the text
  • don't post great articles,only links to other page or file with descriptions where visitor can find your info
  • don't post big quotations,tell what have you read about and post link to the site.
  • assicure that long documents have PDF-variante for those who want copy it
  • control what others write to your theme.
  • control if your site has wasted advertesing space
  • trust visitors
  • post polls,surveys,promotion,catalog,news-letter ecc that your visitor begin to act
  • keywords have not to be too used,because with them you enter in a so great group of sites where is difficult somebody will find YOU.Original keyword can give you more evidence.
  • Not too many options.One product on the page.All products related.Sentences short,number of words under 200-300
  • Blogging structure
  • Easy navigation,visitors comfort level in mind
  • check all links and img-s to see that they work
  • fresh content,often change
  • bookmarkable
  • has to be unique,cool,relevant (content)
  • casual,friendly,interesting,don't copy others,be truthful,include rich and colorful imgs,video where you can
  • don't have orphan pages=not linked to others (how can it be?)
  • avoid frames -content frames and navigation frames (for robots and search eng.=SE)
  • don't overuse Dynamic pages=that change every time are loaded,not more than 2 elements + the same in text for SE and robots
  • you are trying to convince your audience that what you have to ofer will benefit them in some way
  • website agenda:1.attract interest,2.focus attention,3.convey attitude,4.enhance understanding,5.generate confidence,6.stimulate desire,7.motivate action
  • visitor has to understand that this is what he is looking for,than he will be more attentive
  • attentive presentation with graphics,copies,multimedia,expertise,experts
  • people buy not because they need this,but for emotions and psychical desire,Quality of the product is only to explain the fact.So your site has to create emotion and desire.
  • Visitor sees first center of the monitor,so there you have to post anticipated info.This is your visitors eye's journey on the monitor Immagine
  • Post tutorials that explain,create a niche directory,specific glossary,post your industry news,write articles
  • key of success are content positioning and page structure
  • understanding your websites goals
  • identify and understand your competitors
  • search
    engines are looking for:
    - each page of your site is an entry point, optimize (title tags,
    keyphrases) for what each page targets - Greg
    - strive for quality links over quantity links - the entire panel
    - if you are targeting your site geographically, get links from local
    entities (Chamber of Commerce, local directories)
    - NO LINK EXCHANGES (don't even bother - Matt cutts)
  • quality links (I really don' understand this)
  • laser focused on one specific product
  • write quality pages that appeal to the human reader,that providereader with exactly what they are looking for
  • yours has to be the honest appeal of true believer.
  • So to get your website to the top you not only need to optimize your webpages for your targeted keywords but also have to build as many backlinks as possible.
  • Make pages for users, not for robots.
  • Place important visual content on top-left fold of the page (640 x 480).
  • Place useful images that accurately describe your content. Show big colorful pictures of flowers if you are a florist. Show mathematic graphs if you are a statistics site.
  • Place useful text information that describes your content. A news web site may want to emphasize text over images. A photography site may want to emphasize graphics over text.
  • Use colors that represent your content. Warm colors for florists. Strong colors for game sites.
  • Use consistent color and layout across your site. Humans recall better when they see the same look and feel.
There is only one link here,because I lose other addresses.If I'll find something new,I'll add it to this post.



Funy pictures

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1/01-2007 My collection of funy pictures sites on Interesting Links I found
has 26 links!

I think is very healty for mental health ( ;-)) to see good funy pictures.This morning I found an incredibly good picture on one of my preferite sites ( see MyInterestsSite The photo is so funy that I think I'll rest it there for some days) and decided to pick up all addresses of funy pictures sites I know in Interesting Links I found first of all to have them all together and to contribute for mental health of those who like internet surfing so as me and visit my page for it.Unfortunately I forget some of those sites or lose their addresses.But from this day I'll never be without these tabs ready to use.
If you can contribute to my collection,pls write me about your findings.

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Mental health

Surfing the web in the last 3-4 days I find an incredible quantity of sites about mental health.One surfing program wenn I ask to see somthing about health gives me all sites about mental health,other program -the same,the third -once more.I was surprised of this unanimity of so many persons in the same period.Maybe there is an important event these days in the world of mental medicine,asked I myself.Sometimes is it so:one says a word and all media began to repeat it till sombody find another word to repeat.
Then I see in many sites fotos of M.Jackson (2 of them in MyKitchen-Art-Musik,link on the right,I don't give direct link on purpose).I said,I have nothing against him.Sure it is publicity befor his new beginning of carrier.But when you,after dozens of sites about mental health see dozens of sites with his photos,you beginn to laugh.
Or to cry?

Thursday, November 16, 2006

The short story of Kotik




One day Murka was tired from the people where she lived and decided to find another place.
She went near the door of other people and called them.Knock and it will be opend.So happend this time too.She entered and saw that it is good.This is life!And so good was the life that she decided to prepare a gift for people that lived in this house.And the 1 april of 2006 she brought them 4 kittens.So was born Kotik and his 2 black sisters and a gray brother.The persons were infinitely happy to find every moning the cat-family befor the door because Murka brought them every morning from her stable in the flat.She wanted they live so and not so:




















The children can live better as in that place, said she, it is not for enfant:







They are so beautiful

























and they follow this persons and their dog for a walk too !!!
But today Kotik is alone.He rests in this house with his mother Murka.She wants he goes from here too, growl him and bite him.And here you can see his portrets when he was little and today




















Eh...nothing,patience...mamma is mamma... even if she is angry with you, and you are bigger as she,you have to show her all your respect

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Fotos und Probleme(3) How can you post your photos in this blog

I hope I can help with this to post your photos.

-Open the blog.
-on the top of the page you see your email address and NEAR "New post"
-click it,it opens site-manager
-you can(but not have to) write here the title and under the title you see a great place for message.
-on the top of this place you see your possibilities:caracters,bold,on the left,in center,on the right....and than a little image.Click it.
-it opens 2 possibilities
left -upload your photo from your PC and I hope you know do it.
right -upload your photo from other site,with URL.About url I wrote so much...
under this you can chose where you want to post your photo:left,center,right and how big will be your photo.Click large.and click "use always this"
-Click orange key and wait.Then click conferm or what will apper.
-see your photo and write your post ( or don't write it)
-click Publish and wait.

Sunday, November 12, 2006

Der Winter ist schon da!

Auch hier,bei uns ist es kalt +13°C jetzt!Und so wird das Leben jetzt so:



Now we have winter too!It's sooooo cold here,+13°C !!! And the life will be so for us,near chimney or how it calls...

Friday, November 10, 2006

Psycological test

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My Personal Dna Report
an interesting test,different from those you find normaly about IQ or how it calls.Some words were new for me and I could not answer because this evening I had not dictionary nearby.So if you have not very good relations with english,take your dictionary.

Other tests you can find in MyKitchen

Here in this blog there are some other posts about it. This is only the first one.


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